For the second time in a row, I accidentally tipped on carry out.
The first time was two months ago when I originally meant to ask you guys about this (oops), and the second time happened over the weekend. Both at the same spot, and both times by habit because I saw that damn tip line on the receipt!
(I swear companies put this there on purpose btw, regardless if they serve anything โ have you seen that? Where youโre like โWhy the F do you have a tip line here when you sell socks and candles??โ)
Now many of you whoโve been reading this blog for a while know I have an automatic 20% Tipping Rule no matter the service (to save me both time and mental energy), but it looks like my own set of rules is starting to backfire a little. Theyโre so engrained that I go to add a tip at the mere sight of a tip line! No bueno! And although I did think about going back and saying I made a boo-boo and asking if they can correct it, I smartly passed so I could show my face there again ;)
Hereโs my whole list of tipping rules around food btw:
- Restaurant take out โ> 0%
- Restaurant delivery โ> 20%
- Restaurant eat in โ> 20%
- Beers at a bar โ> $1 per beer (or $10 when Iโm an idiot)
- Beers/drinks at a wedding โ> $1 per drink (while theyโre technically free, I find throwing in a few bucks throughout the night makes for a much more pleasant experience, as well as better made drinks and special attention. Like when they close up and youโre still quite thirsty :))
- 25ยข lemonade stands โ $1.00 per cup (boy do those kidsโ eyes light up!)
I feel like Iโm a fairly decent tipper all in all, but whenever it comes to take out I just can never be fully convinced. I get that they had to prepare it and put it in the boxes and make sure it all comes out within a relatively reasonable time, etc, but it still doesnโt seem like I should pay extra without the service part. Which is the whole point of a tip, yeah? Going back to my socks and candles reference (because who doesnโt buy those at the same store? ;)) youโre there to pick up something for sale and then youโre off on your merry way. We donโt tip the cashiers to bag them up for us do we?
Anyways, there are worse problems in the world, but thought Iโd run this by yโall as itโs very possible Iโm missing something here. Plus, the โtippingโ debate is our version of politics or religion for non-money nerds ;) Only we actually care to hear the reasoning in case it improves our ways! When was the last time someone you know asked to be convinced to switch parties or faiths? Hahaโฆ Especially on Facebook? The worst place to battle!
So what say you out there? Do you tip on take out? And if so, do you add the same amount as if you were dining in or a different one?
Iโve thought about tipping just a dollar or two out of courtesy, but I always feel like it would be more insulting than anything so I never doโฆ Instead, I apparently just tip 20% even when I donโt want to ;)
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PS: I also have a universal wedding gift rule too: $100 no matter the relationship. You totally need to invite me to yours :)
UPDATE: Fellow reader jestjack pointed out something important: Anytime you donโt tip MAKE SURE TO CROSS OUT THE TIP LINE! That way servers donโt add something in there when youโre long gone.
[Take out box by Scott J. Waldron]
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OMG, I totally do the exact same thing! They guilt you into it. In order to not be seen as a cheapskate, I completely fall into the โIโm a good patron/person categoryโ and tip them for no reason. If itโs a small take-out order, I will automatically top $1.00. Larger orders (usually Chinese :P get $2.00. Insane! The funny part is that the coffee shop I frequent has the iPad app to pay. If I use my debit card (almost exclusively) they turn their iPad around and explain that the first screen is โoptionalโ, which is the tip screen, set up with pre-selected amounts ($1.00, 5%, and 10%)! If I pay using my card, I am inevitably guilted into hitting the $1.00 tip! Cash means no tip and no guilt. We all need to stop this nonsense!
Rock on!
Mrs. Mad Money Monster
At least they turn it around so they canโt see eh? :)
I never tip with carry out, but that doesnโt stop the guilt. I always feel like I owe them a tip for some reason. When it comes down to it, though, youโre simply buying their product. At least thatโs the way I look at it. Itโs no different than going into a store and buying something. Itโs like tipping a salesman for selling you a computer. Believe me though Iโve had the same thought as you. Hereโs a zinger for youโฆ Do you tip at those places that do curbside pickup? The ones where you park and they run it out to your car? Now thatโs a tough one!
Chris โ Oohโฆyou know, I donโt think Iโve ever stopped at one of those places. But I must say, I probably would tip :-| I CAN tell you this, after this post, I will no longer be tipping for carry out. Thank you, J. Money!
Hahaโฆ I donโt visit any of those places either but yes Iโd say the likelyhood of me tipping there would be a solid 95%.
I wish I could say I never felt guilty enough to tip for carry-out but itโs a constant battle inside me (and with my wife). I hate the idea of it but I love the idea of having someone make food for me and if I frequent the place I want them to make my food right when I go backโฆUsually Iโll tip once every few visits.
I never tip for carry out. Seems to me the tip goes along with table service. No table service, no tip!
If itโs a restaurant like Chillis or the like, those people are still considered servers and are legally required to declare a portion of their sales for the night in tips โ whether they receive them or not. I believe theyโre also paid the server wage (ie lower than actual minimum wage). So I ALWAYS tip around 10% to them โ theyโre not bringing me free refills or checking to make sure my food was cooked to my liking so they donโt get 20% but they did work on my order.
If itโs more of a sandwich or pizza take out place I usually donโt. I feel confident those workers are all making minimum wage and arenโt required to declare tips so donโt feel like my not tipping impacts their financial situation.
This is me too. I have been a server a number of times (side hustle what!!) and packing up a to go order can be more time consuming than waiting on a table because itโs all at once and you donโt realize everything the server preps for you when you order. Also, you get into such a system with a table: first drinks and silverware, then order, next salad or soup, then you prep sides and sauces for the kitchen prepared entreeโฆ Itโs more than you think.
Exactly. Also, the server who provides your carry out order will still have it in their sales at the end of the night, which they use to tip-out other staff. So without providing a small tip, you may be making the server lose money simply by providing your carry out order.
Call me cheap but no way do I tip for a carry out. Them preparing your food in a reasonable time is what youโre paying them for in the first place. Iโve never been tipped just for doing my job correctly. We rarely eat outside of our home because itโs so expensive but part of the reason that we get carry out is so that we wonโt have to feel the obligation to tip anyone.
Itโs kinda like coworkers bitching about not getting a raise when they feel like theyโre owed one just for doing their job decently. Thatโs what you get paid to do! Your job! (Though fortunately the slackers help keep the bar low so when hustlers come around we look a lot better and end up getting those raises ;))
Unfortunately, the job of packing up to-go food usually falls to the servers, and at the expense of serving their tipping tables, usually in the middle of a rush. It is a lot of time-consuming work if they do even a decent job. And servers often have to split tips with the other employees.
I think itโs crap, for what itโs worth, and donโt order carry-out food from restaurants because I hate the system. But if I did, Iโd tip.
Vote for tipping bans, itโs a rotten system. Theyโre already not getting paid for a lot of the work they do. But in the meantime, find out whoโs actually working for you and pay them right.
My rules are almost exactly the same, but if I feel a waiter/ress is downright rude or creates a BAD experience, I am not afraid to tip 10%.
Couple of thingsโฆ.IMHOโฆtips are a reward for a job well done. For me anyway, you provide excellent service and you are rewardedโฆ.you donโt โฆnot so muchโฆAnd please alert your readers to be careful to not leave the tip line blank but draw a line thru it on CC payments. I had lunch at a Pizza Hut and the service was fine. I tipped the waitress in cash and paid with a credit card. Well the waitress added $5 in the tip line to the receipt after I signed it. I realized this when I reconciled my CC bill and brought it to Pizza Hutโs attention who promised to do something but did nothing. My CC company on the other hand was VERY concerned and addressed it promptly and effectively. Needless to say we no longer go to Pizza Hut or drink any Pepsi products. And finally a while back I had an excellent waiter who was a student. We struck up a conversation and he explained that many times โthe houseโ (restaurant) keeps a portion of the tips from staff if and when paid by a credit card. But if tipped in cash they usually do not touch it. Hence forward I have tipped in cash. He was an excellent server and was rewarded for his service. Carryout?โฆ.no tipโฆ
GOOD POINT ABOUT THE TIP LINE!
Going now to make an update -thx :)
Iโm with you J โ I have no problem tipping 20% when we go to restaurants, but I just donโt feel like tipping for carry out. If I get extra service or help, then sure Iโll tip but most times, itโs a straight pick up.
Nope not tipping on take out. I skid donโt tip bad service. Ex: I was a totally empty Buffalo WW once and my server didnโt come by once. I had to even get someone else to bring my check. She finally comes as Iโm walking out and asks if everything is ok..,*blank stare โ no tip
Excuse the typos Its time for a bigger iPhone
Yes I tip on take out. I was in the restaurant industry for a long time. As a server we had to tip out a percentage based on our food sales whether it was dine in or take out. So we tipped the bar, the host, the kitchen, the busser, & the runner all based on money we potentially didnโt make i.e. Take out food that we werenโt tipped on. It was frustrating. But it also happened so often (people not tipping on take out) that it was expected and in turn a very nice surprise when someone actually did tip out on take out. So glad Iโm out of that industry, and out here in Cali there is a LOT of talk about many upscale establishments taking tipping out of the picture and paying servers by the hour. Again, glad I got out of that industry!
Man that sucks :( I wouldnโt be upset if they just charged more for meals and did away with tipping altogether to be honestโฆ I love the places abroad who donโt allow tipping!
I donโt do take out because of the whole tipping thing. When I waited tables, take out was a huge PITA because the cooks would cook and box up the main course, but waitresses had to box up salads, bread, and deserts. We would also ring up the order. About 5-10 minutes of time taken from my tables (always during peak busy hours) with an average tip of about $1. This restaurant was poorly run, but most are, so I think take out is a disaster.
This is an awesome question! (PS. I *love* the wedding gift rule, and may end up stealing that. At the very least, Iโll be blogging about surviving wedding season, and thatโs getting a post for SURE.)
As a general rule, I wonโt tip on takeout, with one exception Iโll always remember. When I was newly out of school, I lived right down the street from this amazing family-owned Vietnamese restaurant. Their food was uber-reasonably priced, but even still, I spent wayyyy more of my income there than Iโd care to admit. I was there probably twice a week, either to pick up dinner or to eat there with friends, and they knew me by name. When my then-boyfriend and I broke up, they noticed within a week and gave me free fortune cookies with my takeout for the next few weeks. (How cute is that?) Anyways, I always, always tipped on takeout there, because I knew them so well, and because the food was out of this world. But at most places, no โ I wonโt tip on takeout.
Awwww that is so sweet :) I catch myself tipping a lot more to people/places I know and visit more frequently too. Cuz then itโs like youโre helping support friends vs just another business. And please do blog away or steal my rule! Itโs been a great way to not have to think about anything anymore hahaโฆ
I might tip on take out if itโs a place I go all the time. Back when I had a latte a day habit, Iโd throw in a buck on coffee whether I was going or staying at โmyโ coffee shop, but they saw me at least 4 times a week. Now that I might go out for coffee once every 2 months, not so much.
We donโt really do takeout from regular restaurants, and at a place where Iโm sure the staff makes regular minimum wage and not server wages, like Moeโs, I donโt tip unless I did something that caused the staff to do extra work. (When my kid was small, she sometimes made big messes and I felt the need to make up for leaving the mess.) The amount was usually commensurate with the extra work.
Iโm a cheapskate when it comes to tipping.
15 to 20% at dine in restaurants (at least a buck a head minimum, since kids are sometimes cheap/free).
Nothing at take out places. I might throw them a few bucks if I was doing one of those drive up take out things like Outback and Chilis have AND I was ordering a massive catering order. I figure those guys are making a regular wage, unlike waitstaff that get a few bucks per hour and need tips to get above min. wage.
I rarely order beers at a bar (because I host awesome parties at home! :) ), but yeah, a buck a beer is what I usually do.
I really donโt like tips but do it out of obligation. I wish restaurants would just pay the waitstaff a reasonable, market-based wage and include the tip as a service charge or increase menu prices to cover their own employeesโ wages. I want to go out to eat and have reasonable non-intrusive service. When it comes to tip time, thereโs always the anxiety of evaluating how the server did, what % should I leave, and does that make me look cheap? The restaurant management should be responsible for ensuring waitstaff can provide adequate service, not individual patrons who incentivize through tips.
Agreedโฆ and exactly why I now do 20% across the board โ no more thinking/anxiety anymore! It doesnโt even bother me either whether the service was great or horrible because itโs all a wash in the end.
Ugh, this drives me crazy. And now with the new ipad square payments the tip option is included on everything! I feel like an asshole for looking for the tiny button that says no thanks.
Wow, itโs been a while since we got take-out. But as I remember, we didnโt tip on it. Of course we firmly believe in tipping well otherwise. Once we forgot to tip our regular waitress at a Chinese place we frequented while dating. We went back & more than made it up to her the next time, but our friends still tease us about that incident.
If itโs a carry out only place or I know a counter person is handling my order no, or a small token. If itโs a restaurant itโs generally a server or bartender that is putting together the order and they are required to claim tips on that income regardless if theyโve received tips or not and are also required to tip out busters and bartenders based on their sales. Iโll tip 10-15%. I know I appreciated the tips when that was my job.
Honestly, I do tip on carry out. Is it mandatory? No. Maybe itโs because of my years in the service industry, but I tip on anything food service related. Itโs kind of like a laziness tax for me. And the upcharge motivates me to do it less often!
i like your idea of a laziness tax in order to eat out less often :)
I disagree about tipping on take out. If iโm picking up a pizza, quick chinese or fast food, then no, iโm not tipping. If iโm ordering $70 of take out from the french bistro down the street then yes iโm throwing in $5 or something in the 10% range. Having worked as a busboy/runner is a nicer restaurant I can tell you that a lot of work goes into preparing and packaging a large take out order at a nice restaurant, probably more work than just putting food on a plate and walking it out to the customerโs table.
I also strongly disagree about tipping the bartenders at weddings/events. Your hosts, no doubt are paying a 20% service fee which goes to staff, including the bartenders (which when you have 200 people at $100 a head youโre talking about a $4,000 tip). I feel that by tipping a bartender at a wedding (same w the coat check or valet) youโre basically implying that your hosts are cheap and that its on you, the invited guest, to take care of the staff.
At my wedding I put it in the contract with the venue that the bartender and coat check could not leave a โtip cupโ at their respective stations. I noticed a few people still threw down a couple of dollars here and there, and if thats their preference, so be it. For everyone else, let them enjoy the event they were invited to without stressing about having enough $1 bills to cover everyone for tips.
Then again, iโm just one personโs opinion. The fact that everyone here views tipping differently makes me realize just how bad a system is. Iโd be so much happier if tipping were abolished and staff was just paid a living wage (which would certainly result in higher prices). Staff who provided good service would have jobs, those who didnt would lose their jobs. Simple enough. I love visiitng Japan. Amazing service, no tipping. Waiters are compensated fairly and take pride in doing a good job
Interesting about the wedding stuff โ I donโt think Iโve heard of that before? I have been to some though where they say โthanks but no thanksโ as theyโre not allowed to receive them, so perhaps they might have had a contract in place similar to yours? Either way I agree it would be nice to do away with tipping altogetherโฆ
No I donโt tip on take out. My thought is a tip is for the table service and I usually tip 20%. I also usually tip in cash because of the way the wait staff needs to claim income and the restaurants rules.
i heard in the news recently that joeโs crab shack went to a โno tipsโ policy. iโm curious to see how the service is there now.
I donโt tip on carry out food, but I always tip any other time when I eat in or it is delivered to my house. In that cases it is 20% as well.
I do not tip on carry out and despite the fact that they provide the tip line and try to make me feel bad, I brush it off. Tips to me imply a level of service that goes above and beyond what you are supposed to pay for. Producing food and beverages is the natural part of any food business and thatโs why you pay for the food, there isnโt anything above and beyond that needs to be be compensated for this. However, when you dine out, your server is responsible for delivering food and drinks to you throughout the meal, plus cleaning up after you. When you carry out, no one needs to clean up after you.
I dont think the tip line on take out is there to โguilt you into tippingโ rather that theyโve program their credit card receipts to print out a certain way and thats what it shows regardless of eat in, carry out or deliver.
I always tip on carry out! The take out place I most often go to is very busy, the woman that takes orders and works the register is communicating in language that is not her native tongue. Also, as a rule of thumb, I tip anyone who has unsupervised access to my food. I would not want anything gross in my mu shu. My wife worked as a front house manager of a very nice restaurant for about 10 years, you would be surprised what kinds of things servers will do to food if they are angry with a customer or if that customer is a regular with a bad reputation for small tips. Granted, when caught they got fired on the spot but they donโt always get caught.
Thatโs a legit fear, yes! Hahaโฆ Remember that move Waiting? :)
I tip at least a dollar on carry out. I used to work in the restaurant industry and I know that of you are busy and putting together a carry out order it can be challenging. I like to show my appreciation for the restaurant staff whenever I can.
Iโm european.
I have no idea what youโre talking about.
:)
I know, you lucky bastard! :)
I usually do about 5-10% on carry out, especially if itโs a large order. Packing food up neatly in a bag and ensuring everything is there and not spilling all over the place does take some work for the crew member who might otherwise be making tips doing in-house orders. You canโt always tip on carry out, but when you can, I do try to do it.
I donโt tip on carryout.
I am starting to see tip line on everything now. Even when Iโm at a fast food place. Crazyโฆ.
I researched this a while back (ha, money nerd) and determined that it was appropriate to tip 10% for carry out when the worker is doing something special for you, or is handling carry-out orders in lieu of regular work where they would receive tips. For example, we tip the sushi chef on our carry out orders, and the curbside to-go places as itโs regular wait staff that handles those. I donโt tip if I carry out a pizza, or other places where handling carry out is the workerโs primary job. We always tip 20%+ everywhere else and feed the tip jars!
Our mantra is that if you canโt afford to tip, you canโt afford to eat out.
I usually tip a dollar for carry out if they bring food to the car โ you know, when you park in the carry out spot and they deliver the food and take payment.
My husband often puts a tip when we take out. I always get upset because I donโt think that people should tip on take out. The whole point of take out is to NOT pay tip. We actually take the time to go there and pick up the food, so I think itโs outrageous that the tip line is even there. Now hubby consults me on tipping ;) Iโm not cheapo, if there is a service provided like when we eat a restaurant, we also tip 15-20%.
I know โ take out is supposed to be cheaper than sitting in! :)
I tip on carryout, but itโs usually just a couple of bucks.
I usually donโt but we donโt get take out that often. We always do 20% or more on dine in food. Once or twice a year, we tip 100%, usually around the holidays. Iโve never stuck around to see the reaction but I hope itโs a nice boost to their day.
Thatโs such a fun idea!! :)
I tip 10% or $1 per main dish. It usually comes out about the same. The wage system for servers is messed up. Itโs not our fault, but the server doesnโt deserve to make less than $3/hour. I can afford to lose a few dollars more than someone living on such a low wage. For me, itโs a human decency. (Not implying anyone else is indecent. Just my personal standard.)
This is my standard, too, though I live on the west coast, so the servers are making at least normal minimum wage. Canโt deny I pat myself on the back for being generous, which is worth more than the $10 a month I could have saved not tipping on takeout (or, yes, even the ~$24k I could have by retirement if I invested that $10 every month instead).
I donโt tip for takeout either. The way I get around the guilt of seeing that tip line? I pay in cash at places that I know have that tip line even though itโs take out or one of those quasi fast food places where you order at the register but they donโt really serve you besides dropping off the food at your seat.
Normal restaurants I pay my 20% unless the service is really terrible.
Iโm all about giving $100 cash/check in gifts at a wedding. Since most couples are already living together by the time theyโre married these days, they donโt need a bunch of plates!
If itโs a restaurant that I get carry out from a lot โ then yes. My hope by doing that was to get better service, maybe throw in an extra chip or cookie. However, that hasnโt happened yet. So, now that I know no one else is tipping for carry out โ guess what โ Iโm not going to tip for carry out either. (Somebodyโs financial standing is gonna go up ; )
I donโt tip on carryout. Generally I tip 20%-ish (I adjust the cents so that the total comes out to a whole number) for a sit down restaurant, but I will throw an extra $5 in for great service (like the guy who remembered that my son with Autism doesnโt like ice in his water, and brought him a plain water just as we were sitting down)โฆ.or I will tip $1.00 for really bad service (that way they know it was intentional. This has only happened 2-3 times ever.).
Weddings are generally $100. But I went to a wedding over the summer and never received a thank you. That irks me.
As for your lemonade standโฆ.my daughter had a bottled water stand a few years ago when we had a HUGE yard sale. It was 90 degrees, and we bought her 2 cases of water and some ice, and told her she could keep whatever she made. You know whatโฆ.not ONE person bought from her. We were selling the bottles for $1, which is less than if you bought a bottle at a conveinence store. And she was a little kid!! The only one who even came close was the mail carrier (we have a walking route), and we told him to put his money away and just gave him a bottle. My poor kid was so sad. She worked very hard helping us carry things inside and out, and sat outside all day. She played with the little kids who were their with their parents and she offered to help people carry stuff. We gave her $30 because she worked so hard.
That is messed up!!! Poor girl, I hope she didnโt quit trying to be a little entrepreneur later :( It would have been an interesting experiment dropping the cost to like 25 cents or 50 cents and seeing if they just gave a dollar and said keep the change :) Yard salers arenโt known to be the most generous with their cash, hahaโฆ
Take out = 10%
Eat in = depends upon the service. Anywhere from 10% if the service is horrible to 20% if the service is awesome.
Bar = 0.50 a beer (I donโt order wine or cocktails)
We never have food delivered. Both me and my husband worked in food service so we always tip something and if the service is horrible, we chalk it up to a bad night.
Haha, this was an awesome post. Iโve definitely tipped 20% for carry out by mistake because I was on automatic. I typically donโt tip for carry out unless Iโm on a guilt trip, and then itโs just a couple of dollars. I like the idea of tipping for carry out if theyโve done something special for you (what JennyKR mentioned). Other than that, I find it hard to justify :-/
I never tip for takeout or at any other cash and carry where no service is offered. I find the request/suggestion insulting, sometimes even infuriating.
When I do receive a service where tipping is the historical norm, I tip 15% and up to 30% (the 30% also includes a note explaining what made for outstanding service from my perspective so that hopefully the server can make it again). BTW: I have on rare occasions (twice so far) left 0% when I felt the person offering the service was going out of their way to be an absolute jerk.
I tip based on service. So if I take a look in the takeout bag and everything I want is in there, including sauces, I tip $1 per order. I tip 15-25% when sitting down at restaurants. I tip $1 per alcoholic beverage at open bars or casinos. Or I tip them $5-$10 up front and drink away.
Iโve only skipped out on tipping when the service sucks, the servers are just rude, or if my take out order has necessary stuff missing like the yummy fish sauce with Vietnamese vermicelli bowls. Oh, and I tip slightly better at the local restaurants we go to a lot. They are like my food family and I donโt mind donating extra to whatever rocks their boat.
Casinos! Forgot about those! Iโll tip like $10 up front too just to get super good service and so you donโt have to keep tipping a dollar every dang time hahaโฆ. Man I miss playing poker.
I donโt tip on carry out, but I do feel a bit guilty not filling in that tip line. A friend of a friend on Facebook was a carry out service person at a chain restaurant where they have a dedicated carry out desk, and I saw his posts about not getting tips when heโs paid the same as the wait staff. That gave me pause, but I rarely get carry out from places with a carry out station. I really resent the whole tipping system where Iโm forced to guess how much the staff makes and whether itโs necessary/appropriate for me to provide a tip on top of the food charges. I canโt wait until the no-tipping system makes itโs way across the country and a semi-decent wage is included in the charges.
I donโt tip on carryout.
When in doubt tip more, no one ever went broke tipping.
Donโt get me started on tipping. :)
I think the North American tipping concept is becoming a granted practice. Tipping should be based on service.
For carryout I donโt tip.
As someone who used to work in several restaurants I ALWAYS tip for pick up. If there is a person who is specifically designated to a pick up position they donโt make tips elsewhere during their shift and if their not then they have to spend time neglecting their tables that WILL tip them to service your order. A lot of time goes into take out as you have to make sure everything is perfect and all necessary items included before the customer leaves. Sorry to inform all of you who voiced your unwillingness to tip, but the staff will remember you if you stiff them and think youโre cheap. If its a place you order out from frequently you might notice a decline in quality once they come to recognize you and deem you unfit to prioritize over their other duties.
Thatโs the downside, yes :) Though I feel like the majority of people donโt even think youโre *supposed* to tip for take out? So in a way theyโre getting punished for not understanding how the game works. Hell, Iโm still confused as to who gets tipped when and where and how much servers make vs cashiers/bartenders/etcโฆ and a half dozen people here have already tried explaining it on this thread! I donโt think most people want to screw anyone over, itโs just a big olโ clusterf*ck.
Iโve actually never tipped on carry out, and itโs never even occurred to me. I do like the rest of your tipping rules though and I follow those pretty closely for restaurants and delivery as well as tipping $1 per beer (and then slightly more if itโs mixed drinks). Iโve actually started to see some restaurants are removing tipping in the news recently.
I always tip on takeout and usually tip around 15% to 20% on it. We donโt get takeout a ton (we usually either eat at the restaurant or get it delivered), so it doesnโt really impact us.
Someone may have already mentioned this in the comments but you ABSOLUTELY should be tipping for carry out orders. The bartender or server who rings this up is still responsible for paying taxes on this sale (and the government assumes a certain %of tips/sales). Plus they have checked your order and packed it and made sure you have utensils and condiments etc. Sorry but not tipping on carry out is bad form.
Iโve never even realized that tipping on takeout was a โthingโ. Iโve never tipped on takeout, and tipping $1 per beer seems a little ridiculous to me. If it takes 10 seconds to prepare the beer, this means that youโre giving the bartender the equivalent of $360 per hour. Thatโs nuts. I stick to a solid 15-25% for all table-side and bar-side service.
So what is 20% on a $5 beer? Thatโs right: $1.
Hahaโฆ
I agree it does sound odd to tip a dollar for someone passing you over a beer, but for whatever reason it just feels โright.โ Or maybe because youโre so excited to drink one that you donโt even feel the loss of the dollar! :)
I thought tipping unnecessary for take out until my daughter became a server at a restaurant who takes phone in orders for take out. She goes out of her way to make sure the orders she takes are done when she promises them rather than assuming someone else is doing it. She gets paid the same wage for that service, so she is counting on your tip just as she would if she were waiting on your table in the restaurant. (Also, now that I know my barrista makes considerably more than my daughter, I no longer always tip my barrista either!)
As someone who worked as a host at Cocoโs Bakery (definitely not my most glamorous job ;) haha) I can attest that a dollar or two is more than enough! Most of the time, the food is already ready to go because the chefs place it in the boxes, etc and the host or cashier person simply puts it in the box. Most people wouldnโt tip me but I would occasionally get tips and they tended to add up to about $10-$20 per shift. I never expected it and knew it wasnโt something that was part of my job/earnings. It was just a nice perk from nice people that happened occasionally :)
For me tip is about the additional service the person adds to the food.
So if itโs a quick thing like a sandwich or a cup of coffee to go, I donโt leave a tip. Thereโs no service.
However, if thereโs some kind of service with my to go order, I leave a small tip. For example, if I get extra cheese containers for a pizza, silverware and paper towels, additional bread, etcโฆ then I do tip.
In general, I would say that if it makes someone feel bad not tipping, then he should tip. A good conscience is a great pillow and thatโs definitely worth a few dollars :)
I usually donโt tip on carry out but I have been thinking about starting โ maybe some sort of rule like half of what I would tip for dine-in.
Do you have a graduation gift rule?
I donโt have a grad rule yet since Iโm not in that stage of life where people are graduating around me, but if I had to make one up on the spot Iโd probably give $50 in cash. I love giving/receiving cash even though itโs a faux pas :)
I did not ever tip on carry out until one time someone at the sushi place WROTE IN THE TIP. I was so pissed! So I figured that I should leave $1-2. I have not returned to that sushi restaurant.
P.S. I tip the same on beers, drinks, and weddings!
I tip on take out if sheโs cute.
Iโm pretty much tipping along those same guidelines. To the point that when the service is bad, Mrs. SSC will say, โIโm getting this one.โ because she knows Iโll still tip decent. Thatโs when I know theyโll get a tip based on serviceโฆ Otherwise, Iโm the same as you on tipping.
I go more of a round up for carry out tipping. So if it is $14.25 they are getting $0.75. I would feel bad, but in the end, the cooks did all the work on that one. You just brought my find out from the backโฆ much like a McDonaldโs.
If Iโm a regular at a restaurant Iโll tip a little bit since I intend to come back!!!! Usually I try not to but the habit does kick in every now and then and I leave a dollar or two. Rethinkingโฆperhaps I need to have a stronger will!
Iโm offended by this post.
I was a server, and when I had to prepare takeout for someone, I was taking time away from my tables to do so. Ensuring that the food is ready ON TIME, that you have everything you need, including little extras like bread and utensils, is also a part of it. A small tip โ 10% โ would be very nice. Or, if you had a big and complicated order, then what would YOU like to receive???โฆ And crossing out the line is seriously insulting. It implies that servers arenโt to be trusted. You would get FIRED for adding a tip. Youโve obviously never been a server. This entire article is awful, and people are READING you! Good luck with your dining. If things start getting forgotten or late, then I canโt imagine why someone getting paid $2.09 an hour would care.
Sorry that you were offended. I genuinely wanted to know what people thought about this so threw it out there for discussion which is the purpose of my blog. As you can see from the comments there seems to be a lot of confusion over the โrulesโ and who gets paid what, and when, which is the reason people like me are never sure what to do. So while youโre upset from it, I am glad you took the time to share as itโll be comments like this that will get us to stop and think more the next time we go to tip (or not).
As for the crossing out part, well, unfortunately people DO illegally fill that part out โ as evidence of a couple of comments here in this thread itself โ so while 99.9999% wouldnโt even dare I think itโs perfectly acceptable to protect yourself if you can. Itโs the same reason you lock your doors at night and have passwords for all your financial accounts. Most people wouldnโt think of stealing from you but why risk it?
I never tip for carry out unless I do it by mistake like you did (it happens sometimes). On good service, I tip 20%, on mediocre service, I tip 15%, on not that good of service, 10%.
By the way, Iโm having a virtual wedding, send $100 my wayโฆ
As long as you find a way to provide me (real) beer! :)
I remember my roommate in college was a server and if you had the takeout orders you had fewer tables so you were losing tips to do that work, I donโt tip 20% but at least a buck or two about 10%
Giving a tip shows appreciation to the workers. It means that they had done a good job and you love the service offered. I never give tip to those service crews that are rude because why give them if they are not giving the right service that you need as a customer. You are paying, right?
I asked once while the girl was finishing packing up my food and she said itโs always appreciated but they donโt expect them. I usually add a buck or two, but I donโt tip the 20%+ that I would if I were eating in the restaurant instead of picking up.
I think thatโs what Iโm going to do from now on โ just leave a cple bucks. Feels like a happy medium.
I usually tip 10% on a take-out. I have a friend who is a bartender and server. I asked her this question about tipping on take-out once. She said she understand why people donโt tip or feel awkward about it. However, the take-out $$ do go toward the total sales of the person ringing you up that day. So if sheโs behind the bar and doesnโt have a lot of customers, but a lot of take-out, she might have a low tip percentage. She said she generally will tip 10% when she is ordering take-out, especially if they offer you something to drink (if you are waiting) or really make sure you get everything you need (i.e. plates/forks if you are staying in a hotel.)
Thatโs just my rule of thumb!
I tip when somebody actually serves me a meal at a restaurant and cleans up after me, but not when I get take out, no. That means I will generally tip even if I only order a single beer at the bar, but usually only something small.
I used to be a server, and taking and putting together take out orders is a huge pain. People usually want the specials read over the phone, whereas if theyโre there in person they can read them while the server waits on other people. The server also has to get take out cups and fill them, put in straws, put condiments, rolls, salads, etc. in separate take out boxes, then bag the order. I think that should be worth at least 10%, especially if itโs a place that generally does eat in and occasionally does take out. Probably at a place where take out is the norm, the people who work there are paid more than a few dollars an hour.
I do, about 10-15%. After working in the industry, and one place in particular that had sales evenly split between dine in, delivery, and take out (pizza place), the tip I got for pick up meant I remember them the next time they popped in. So their next order got in the line asap. Ended up saving them up to 10 minutes per visit thereafter, which then created more tips.
So I do. Whatโs a dollar or 2 when it saves me time or get a free goody here and there.
Iโm slowly being convinced :)
I like the way it feels to give a buck to the teenager who scooped my ice cream, etc. My bigger goal though is to rarely have others prepare my food. Scooping your own ice cream at home is the way to go!
I def. tend to tip more graciously around kids/teens too. Even those who walk around the neighborhood trying to sell stuff. I never buy the stuff (minimalism!) but Iโll always tip a few bucks or more just to help outโฆ Maybe restaurants should hire kids to do take out going forward :)
I didnโt used to leave any tip on take-out food, but in more recent years, if itโs a true sit-down restaurant, then I will usually leave a buck or two (on a one-person order) as long as they greet me inoffensively. This is fresh on my mind because it just happened 15 minutes ago โ if the restaurant charges a line item for โpackagingโ that is a guaranteed way that I will tip nothing instead of the buck or two that I would have otherwise.
Good article. There are plenty of ways to save money. Trying to do so on gratuity isnโt the way to do it. I think generosity encourages personal growth and a โabundance mentalityโ that helps us achieve our goals. With that said, agree with you 100% that pick-up takeout orders donโt warrant gratuity. I worked in the restaurant business when I was in high school and I would have never expected that.
From my experience working in To Go at an Outback Steakhouse, I was expected to make at least 10% in tips. I was paid $4.25/hour (more than regular wait staff), but also expected to earn these tips. I literally had the same job as the waitstaff, except I only had ONE chance to get everything right. I would take your order on the phone, repeat it over to make sure it was correct, send it back to the kitchen, then wait 20-25 minutes for it to get done. Much like the waitstaff had to do, I had to wait until the food came up, box it all, make it presentable, mark the contents on each box, put it in the bag, then bring it out to cars. Itโs never fun getting an order of $100 or more and not getting tipped at all after sweating and running around the kitchen preparing the food, running to and from the computer and phone to take orders, running outside to bring food out, repeat. We were expected to claim 10% at the end of the night, however, Iโd always be happy with 5%.
I donโt work there anymore, but I have some friends that do still. Itโs discouraging to see that the majority opinion is to not tip take out at all.
They expected you to claim 10%? Man, that sucks, Iโm sorryโฆ At least with wait staff the majority of people KNOW to tip them, but with take out itโs such a gray area and most people have no idea whatโs expected or not to do :(
I donโt tip on take out orders, nor do I tip at restaurants where I have to stand in line to order, go pickup my food when the numbers called, and am expected to bus my own table (Caliburger). However, I do I agree that the tip line makes you feel guilty for leaving it blank.
I donโt tip at weddings either. Iโm still jaded at the whole wedding industry. Plus, the bride and groom was already forced to pay that 20% service charge anyways. Theyโre just double dipping with those tip jars now.
I havenโt read through all of the replies, but I compare it to fast food. If I tip for carry out at a full service restaurant then I feel like I should be tipping at McDonaldโs, and nobody does that, right? (Maybe a rare few, but not common.) Whatโs the difference? Someone in the back makes the food. The person in front bags it up and I pay them.
Yes, I would allow for a small tip for extra service for curbside pickup or a complicated order, but itโs $1. Itโs still nowhere near the service level of if I was eating in.
I work in a restaurant as a server and I hate taking take out orders. I have to tip out 10% of my total sales to the other waitstaff/bar at the end of my shift. So if I take $100 in take out orders and receive no tip from the orders then I have to tip out $10 from my tipa for the night and I wind up paying out of my own pocket for the people who ordered by phone to enjoy their meals. If you order take out from a restaurant where you have the option to sit down and eat and would usually tip then you should always tip at least 10%, if not more, to cover the tip-out that servers have to do at the end of the night. At least they wonโt have to pay for your to pick up your food.
Iโm a cook. Back of the house makes out with half or less of what a server or bartender makes. This has been a consistent throughout 10+ years of experience. I wish the cook could get a tip because it would make a huge difference. I think everyone in a restaurant should be paid the same. They are all expected to do a good job and work hard. I always thought it was bull that the dishwasher makes the least amount of money when thatโs the hardest job, especially when they have you cleaning grills, doing leaf blowing, dumping out grease, and extra stuff a boss wants to tack on.
But letโs get back to this question, I get that if I want to go out I should be tipping. I think the bartender makes plenty and donโt see how they need another tip for giving you the order. Someone has to answer the phone, a cook has to prepare it, and it makes no sense unless your tipping everyone involved. I always do 20% even on drinks but not for carry out. Unless the bartender or whoever gave me my order charms me a little bit.
Really interesting reading all this from those of yโall in the industry. Appreciate you stopping by to continue the discussion!
give or donโt give , as one chooseโs โ i generally give less to a takeout than i would to a table service restaurant โ but what concerns me more is that some types of takeout places (like Chinese, eg) i am pretty sure do not give the โtipsโ to the people working in back. this infuriates me. sometimes i ask them โ โyou are going to give this to the guy cooking back there. right?โ sometimes they give me a BS answer about it being a โfamily-owned businessโ blah blah blah. sad.
If you ordered through an app, maybe not. But if you called in a someone patiently took your order, added all your picky modifications to the order, had to explain to the kitchen what all your modifications meant, double checked your order to make sure everything was right, sent back any food that wasnโt, wrote everyoneโs names on the boxes if thatโs what you insisted on, packed it, and then gave it to you with a smile, itโs kind of douchey not to tip. It doesnโt have to be 20%, there was no table service, we understand that.
Good call on all the modification stuff โ I can see how a tip would help make up for how annoying it is :)